About Dannette Escobedo

Founder and Owner of Escobedo Counseling, LLC

I’ve always known I wanted to help people and make a difference in the world, but I didn’t always know what that would look like. As a teenager, I experienced painful and heartbreaking moments that shaped me in ways I couldn’t fully understand at the time. It was through my own journey in therapy that I began to find strength within myself—to navigate life’s challenges in a way that felt hopeful and meaningful. Therapy gave me the space to process my experiences, to heal, and to grow into the person I wanted to be. That experience sparked something in me, a deep desire to help others find their own strength and healing.

I truly believe we all have an innate capacity to heal, even when life feels overwhelming or uncertain. But healing isn’t one-size-fits-all. The way we process pain, respond to challenges, and move forward in our lives is deeply personal. As a therapist, my role isn’t to tell people what their healing should look like—it’s to walk alongside them, offering support, guidance, and a safe space to explore their experiences.

I feel incredibly honored to do this work. Watching my clients gain insight, build stronger relationships, and create the lives they want is what makes this work so meaningful to me. No matter where someone is in their journey, I believe in their ability to grow, heal, and find a way forward.

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My Area of Expertise and Why I chose it

I specialize in relationship therapy for couples, individuals, and families because I believe connection is at the heart of healing. We aren’t meant to go through life alone—our relationships shape us, ground us, and give us a sense of belonging. When we feel truly seen, understood, and valued by the people we love, we can show up as our most authentic selves. But when relationships feel strained, disconnected, or painful, it can leave us feeling lost, unseen, or questioning our worth.

This understanding comes from both my professional training and my own lived experiences. I’ve seen firsthand how transformative it is to have safe, loving connections, and I’ve also experienced what it’s like when those connections are missing or broken. These experiences are what led me to this work—they showed me just how much relationships influence our sense of self, our emotional well-being, and our ability to thrive.

I truly believe that love and connection are why we’re here. They give life meaning, shape our sense of identity, and offer us a foundation of support as we move through life’s challenges. My role as a therapist is to help my clients navigate the complexities of their relationships—whether that means deepening intimacy, healing past wounds, improving communication, or learning how to set healthy boundaries. Every relationship has the potential for growth, and I’m honored to walk alongside my clients as they strengthen their connections and create the fulfilling relationships they deserve.

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How I approach Therapy

I believe true happiness is found in the present moment. Life moves fast, and it’s so fragile—we never really know what’s ahead. The only thing we can truly hold onto is right now. That belief shapes not only how I try to live my life but also how I approach therapy.

In my work with clients, I focus on what’s happening in the moment—how they’re feeling, what they’re learning about themselves, and how they’re experiencing their relationships right then and there. Therapy isn’t just about reflecting on the past or planning for the future; it’s a space to try new ways of connecting, expressing, and understanding yourself in real-time. It’s about practicing showing up as your full, authentic self and feeling supported in that process.

When working with couples, families, or individuals, I don’t believe in assigning blame or seeing one person as the “problem.” Relationships are complex, and we all bring our own histories, fears, and hopes into them. Instead of focusing on who’s right or wrong, I help my clients slow down, tune into themselves and their loved ones, and uncover what they really need to feel seen, heard, and connected.

For me, therapy is about embracing imperfection, deepening self-awareness, and creating space for healing in the here and now. When we learn to be fully present—with ourselves and with each other—we open the door to real connection, growth, and meaningful change.

Training and Experience

I've been a therapist for over a decade, but my passion for this work goes way beyond just my professional training. I got my Master’s in Couples and Family Therapy from the University of Colorado Denver in 2012, and since then, I’ve continued to dive deeper with advanced training in Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy and the Gottman Method. Over the years, I’ve worked in all kinds of settings—schools, child protective services, parenting classes, crisis centers, ERs, and as a clinical supervisor. But what I love most is my private practice, where I get to work closely with people as they heal, grow, and strengthen their relationships.

That said, therapy isn’t just about what I’ve learned in school or training—it’s personal, too. As a parent and a spouse, I know firsthand that relationships aren’t always easy. Real connection takes effort, vulnerability, and patience. But I also know that those little moments of understanding, the unexpected gestures of love, and the deep bonds we build with our partners and families are what make life truly meaningful.

I’ve lived through so many phases of relationships—falling in love, building a life, experiencing the pure joy of holding my child for the first time, navigating the chaos of raising tiny versions of myself, and even the deep heartache of losing a parent. Life is messy, beautiful, and constantly changing, and I feel truly honored to walk alongside my clients as they navigate their own journeys.

In my work, I bring both my professional expertise and my real-life experiences. My goal isn’t just to help people get through challenges but to support them in creating relationships that feel fulfilling, loving, and deeply connected. Because at the end of the day, relationships are what ground us, shape us, and make life worth living.

What Makes Me and My Practice Unique

I bring my whole heart and mind into my work with clients—I don’t just sit back and ask, “How does that make you feel?” My approach goes much deeper. I help my clients uncover the roots of their struggles, make sense of their pain, and find real, meaningful ways to heal. Clients often tell me that I really get them—that they feel both supported and challenged in ways that push them toward real growth. They walk away from sessions with fresh insights, clarity, and practical tools they can actually use. And while therapy isn’t always easy, I do my best to bring warmth, humor, and authenticity into the process.

What also makes me unique is that I specialize exclusively in relationship therapy, using an attachment-based approach. Because of my advanced training in Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy and the Gottman Method, I don’t just take a general therapy approach—I deeply understand the dynamics of relationships, the patterns that keep people stuck, and how to create real, lasting change. My clients often feel a sense of relief early on in our work because I can quickly pinpoint the pain points in their relationships and help them make sense of why they feel stuck. This level of expertise allows me to offer sound, research-backed solutions that are both healing and effective—much more readily than a general therapist who works across many different areas.

I also hear all the time, “You’re not like other therapists.” I take that as a huge compliment. My job isn’t just to listen—it’s to help you do the real work of healing. I create a space where clients feel seen, safe, and supported, even when we’re tackling the tough stuff.

What also makes my practice unique is that it’s just me—no middlemen, no big group practice. Every call, email, billing question, or scheduling change goes directly through me, which means no bouncing around between different people just to get an answer. My services are fully tailored to each client’s needs, and my clients appreciate knowing they have one consistent, trusted point of contact for everything. That personal touch helps create a sense of security and ease, so clients can focus on what really matters—getting the support they deserve.

What I Am Like Outside of The Office

I’m a third-generation Denver native, and I absolutely love Colorado. When I’m not in the office, you’ll find me spending time with my family—that’s where my heart is. Every moment outside of work is filled with laughter, connection, and making the most of life together.

I’m in an interracial marriage, and my husband, a first-generation Mexican American, has brought so much rich culture and tradition into our lives. We’ve both done deep dives into our family histories through DNA research—my roots trace back to Ireland, and his lineage is Aztec. We love exploring our heritage and teaching our daughters about their ancestors, the stories of their people, and the incredible contributions they’ve made to the world. It’s important to us that our girls grow up feeling proud of who they are and where they come from.

Our daughters keep us busy! One is in preschool, the other in second grade, and they are both deeply involved in their dance lessons and performance with a local nonprofit that teaches traditional Mexican folk dance (Folklorico). Most days, you’ll find me driving to and from rehearsals, cheering them on, and soaking in the joy of watching them do what they love.

When I do get a little downtime, I love being surrounded by plants—both inside and out. In the summer, you’ll find me in my garden, growing veggies and flowers, and I’m a bit of a houseplant connoisseur. I also have a passion for interior design and remodeling—there’s something so satisfying about transforming a space.

Music is another big love of mine. I try to catch live performances whenever I can, and my playlists jump between punk rock, shoegaze, reggae, and ’90s grunge. I also love to travel, especially to warm, sunny beaches—nothing beats the ocean for me. But I’m just as happy exploring the mountains, whether it’s hiking, camping, snowboarding, or soaking in one of Colorado’s amazing hot springs.

At the end of the day, once the kids are asleep, my husband and I love winding down with stand-up comedy or a good sci-fi show. It’s our way of relaxing and reconnecting after the chaos of the day.